I think some people get soaked up in love (with their significant other) that sometimes they forget about what really matters; not that the love that they’re in doesn’t matter, but what happened to all the love that was given to them before their significant other came along? For example, the love from their friends, family, God? They feel so lucky and get so excited to have that other love, that they forsake the love that they already had. Why must having someone as your significant other make you “the happiest person in the world?” Were you not content with your great friends or loving family or your whole support group that are there 100% of the time? I know that I’m not one to talk because I’ve never been in such a situation, like being “in love,” but I know that if ever I be in that situation, I would never make him any more important than those who’ve been in my life way longer, and that have loved me before he came around. There should always be a fair balance.
So, my point being is that, don’t change who you are when you fall in love. Your significant other should only be encouraging you to be the best of who you already are.
Man. This friendship or “not” friendship is seriously giving me headache. Are we friends? Are we not? This roller coaster of a friendship is not Disneyland at all. I don’t even like roller coasters! UGH! Can I permanently take you OUT of my memory and brain so that I don’t have to go through this anymore?! Please?
Day #7: A song that reminds you of a certain event- Million Dollar Bill | Whitney Houston
This song reminds me of NEW YEARS’ EVE 2009 going to 2010. That was probably the best NYE I EVER had in my life. I was with my family, as well as my second family. We laughed, screamed, cried.. it was an amazing night.
"And if he makes you feel like a million dollar bill say ‘OH! Oh, oh, oh!’ Say, "OH! Oh, oh, oh!"
Day #6: A song that reminds you of somewhere- Here Comes the Sun | The Beatles
This song reminds me of CALIFORNIA, in general. It’s such a sunny and fun song, which is what Cali is all about. It’s my ideal place to live and I don’t know where else could compare to such a paradise.
"Little darling, the smiles returning to the faces. Little darling, it seems like years since it’s been here. Here comes the sun, here comes the sun and I say, it’s all right…"
Day #5: A song that reminds you of someone- Better Together | Jack Johnson
This reminds of the person that sang it to me. This person sang this song to me, but not in the words of Jack Johnson, it was from this person’s own words. I wish I would’ve recorded it somehow. Anyways, that’s what happened. It’s too bad this person is hopefully only temporarily out of my life.
"There’s no combination of words I could put on the back of a postcard. No song that I could sing, but I could try for your heart."
It’s been almost ten years. TEN YEARS since we’ve held the title as “best friends.” I honestly think you are more than that. You are my sister, in faith and blood. I don’t know what I would do without you. You have been there for me, good or bad, thick and THICKER, ugly and HOT. You’ve been there through everything. We’ve had our ups and not so many downs, but you know, we got through them.. SO EASILY. I don’t know ANYONE who compares to you. Although I’ve moved so far away from you, we made sure that the distance gave us no problems. I love that no matter what kind of trouble or situation I am in, you’re there for me. Even if it were the most uncomfortable situation, you’re always there. We’ve been through so much together, and I don’t know who else has impacted my life the way you have. You are without a doubt my true best friend and I love you.
Write a letter a day to the designated individual:
Day 1 — Your Best Friend Day 2 — Your Crush Day 3 — Your parents Day 4 — Your sibling (or closest relative) Day 5 — Your dreams Day 6 — A stranger Day 7 — Your Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend/love/crush Day 8 — Your favorite internet friend Day 9 —…